Leaving the family or children to work in non-Muslim countries

Q 3: What is the ruling on working in a non-Muslim country, which sometimes entails leaving one's wife and children at home and visiting them whenever possible? What is the ruling on a husband and wife living together abroad and leaving their children at home with some relatives?

A: The basic rule is that a Muslim should live in a Muslim country and earn their living in a lawful way to preserve their Din (religion) of Islam, keep away from Fitnah (temptation), cooperate with the Muslims, and make them larger in number. However, if there are reasons that force a Muslim to live in non-Muslim countries, it is permissible for them to live there and earn their living, provided that they are adhering to the teachings of Islam, able to practice its rituals in public, safe from Fitnah, and their work is Shar`y (Islamically lawful). If the wife agrees and the children are safe from corruption, and there are relatives to care for them, a man may be away from his wife and children and there is no harm in this. Otherwise, he should give his wife her marital rights and take care of his children by himself, even if he has to return home. Allah (Exalted be He) says: Verily, Allâh is the All-Provider, Owner of Power, the Most Strong. He (Exalted be He) also says: And whosoever fears Allâh and keeps his duty to Him, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty). And He will provide him from (sources) he never could imagine. And whosoever puts his trust in Allâh, then He will suffice him. Verily, Allâh will accomplish his purpose. Indeed Allâh has set a measure for all things. (Part No. 19; Page No. 349) May Allah grant us success. May peace and blessings be upon our Prophet Muhammad, his family, and Companions.