Husband saying to his wife's father to consider his daughter divorced if she did not return to her house
(Part No. 20; Page No. 182)
If the reality is as you mentioned that you only meant by your words to your uncle to urge your wife to return to your house and that you did not divorce her, there is no harm on you. Your words can be taken as a way of
threatening or resolving to divorce without doing so. Thus, this is not considered divorce and she is still your wife. May Allah grant us success. May peace and blessings be upon our Prophet Muhammad, his family, and Companions.