what is the ruling on asking the girl's opinion about a suitor? If she does not accept, would it be a sign of disobedience to her father?
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The consent of the girl should be taken regarding her marriage, whether she is a virgin or previously married. If she refuses to marry a certain person, that will not be considered as disobedience to her father because she has the right to accept or not. May Allah grant us success. May peace and blessings be upon our Prophet Muhammad, his family, and Companions.