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A: Firstly: We do not know any proof on the permissibility of differentiating between the grave of a woman and the grave of a man with a stone or suchlike and the basic ruling is that there is no need to distinguish between the two. Secondly: It is forbidden to write on the grave whether the name of the buried person, (Part No. 9; Page No. 55) the date of his death or anything else because of what has been related by Al-Tirmidhy and Al-Nasa'y that the Prophet (peace be upon him) prohibited writing on graves... The Sanad (chain of narration) of this Hadith is Sahih (authentic).